It's no longer bothers me that I may be constantly searching for father figures; by this time, I have found several and dearly enjoyed knowing them all.
Well, first of all, let’s make it clear, compliments are not only meant to be for ladies, they can also be given to men. Guys love compliments as much as girls do, but gentlemen hardly ever get any or, at least, they get compliments a lot rarer than ladies do. A compliment given to a guy builds up and boosts his confidence and self esteem, therefore, it’s vital to give your man this type of “nourishment”.
A guy can be turned into a brave hero, caring gentleman and gallant chevalier, he can make you feel like a princess, thanks to skilfully expressed, sincere compliment.
In order to give your special someone a good compliment you need to understand that men and women like different types of “praise”. For example, a compliment that a lady might like can only offend or disturb a man…Let’s explore it a little further…
The main “rule” for giving a compliment to a man is to emphasize and accentuate his “manhood”. Men are very sensitive to hypocrisy and can distinguish insincerity very quickly, therefore, avoid showering your guy with “empty worship” out of the blue. Say only things that you really mean, don’t try to overload your man with untruthful flattery, misleading sweet talk and insincere admiration, because he will definitely feel it…
How does a man react to compliments?
Imagine that you called your special someone “a real gentleman”…he will start to open all doors for you and will try to act, as a gallant and courteous man. Encouraged by you, he will try to prove that you are right! If you express gratitude to your boyfriend/husband for his kindness and generosity, for example, he will only want to give you more of the things for which you are grateful; if you call your other half “skilled” and “talented”, he will want to move mountains for you and will try even harder to do his best.
So, instead of criticizing the person you love, give him your sincere appreciation and compliment him, saying:
“You are so smart!”
“My darling, I’m sure that you can do this!”
“I’m sure you’ll succeed!”
And, finally, the most important tip on how to compliment a guy is this: remember that your compliment should always be sincere and come straight from your heart, you need to really love and appreciate the person, whom you are showering with your praise.
You are so handsome!
Powerful!
You are the strongest of all!
You are so understanding…
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Loving!
You are my perfect man!
You are so kind!
You are the best of the best!
You are my stronghold!
You are so fearless!
You are incomparable!
Your charm is irresistible!
Your love is divine!
My one and only…
Tender.
Bright and intelligent!
You are so seductive!
My dream came true!
You are like coming home!
Your smile…wow!
You are so funny!
You make me laugh like no other!
Your humor is the best!
The most attractive man in the world!..universe! (he will love it)
How energetic is my man!
Kindhearted.
Exciting.
Courageous…
Amazing!
The most talented!
Your style is impeccable!
This suit is just stunning!
You are so romantic!
Cute!
Hot!
You are so creative!
You are my cup of tea!
You are a real gentleman!
How I love you!
You are so impressive!
You inspire me!
I’m so proud of you!
Your eyes are as deep as the ocean, I can watch forever…(well, this one is more for girls, but your man might still like it too :))
My strong, confident and powerful!
Irresistible!
Wow, you are the best at driving!
You cook like no other!
With you I feel like a real lady!
So, now you know how to compliment your man and I hope you’ll practice it often.
Please feel free to comment and share your own tips on how to compliment a guy in the section below.
Happy Father's day
Stay happy!
